Thursday, June 11, 2009

My Best Friend's Wedding

My Best friend is getting married this weekend. I feel disappointed that I couldn't make it. But I also missed my bro's wedding, and to be fair, I missed Niza's wedding too (I was heavily pregnant waiting to pop at that time) and so I can safely say, my life (wedding-attending wise) is full of disappointment. I LOVE weddings.. I love how the mood love conquers all, love saves the day, all those lovey-dovey feeling is entwined with the oxygen that I breath on wedding days. I love how two person, being so in love, finally commit to be husband and wife, and to never be apart for as long as they shall live (until death do them part lah of course), for eternity, etc...(isi tempat kosong). But what I really love most is the food ;). I adore those mouth-watering nasi minyak and ayam masak merah... And these food taste better when it's served on a wedding day. Sob..sob..(mak, nak nasi minyak and ayam masak merah please, tolong pos ke Perth)

But thruth be told, missing my best friend's most significant day of her life is sad. To see her pass through this life-changing point in her life without me there is sad. In a way, I feel left out. Left out from the experience, from her memory. Is this going to be the start of a beautiful friendship falling apart? (fikiran dah merepek, hahah, maklumlah, bangun sahur kan) But I shouldn't be sad. I should be happy for her. If she's anything like me, she wouldn't care if I wasn't around. (i was soo self-absorbed, all i could think of on my wedding day was how pretty I should look and of course it's hard to notice who's there and who's not, right?), I mean, not that she doesn't care (like I don't give a damn kinda care) but I know it won't bother her. Cause it's the happiest day of her life (well, one of the happiest lah...wait till she have kids, and then THAT'll be her happiest day kot) and I'm sure (eventhough I might be missed ;p) she'll have a ball, looking all gorgeous in that gold dress, and all ready to be Mrs Ikhwan. Speaking of which, I remembered them coming to my wedding (baru couple tak silap) all lovey-dovey..they even hold hands in my wedding photo. Good times, kan babe? (if she reads this la, knowing newly-weds, tahun dpn kot baru baca blog, busy with something else ;p).

Sis Dora,

Congrats babe. I will pray for a very happy on everlasting marriage for the both of you. Enjoy this beautiful day, and those even more beautiful days to come with your beloved (future) husband. Take care

your #1BF (ni dora yg ckp eh, bukan I suka2 letak, or maybe she says that to ALL her BF)

Sheri


p/s- I'll be coming home in Dec, is there anyone getting married in Dec that I can go to? Make sure the menu is nasi minyak and ayam masak merah ye ;p (poyo je..hahaha).

p/p/s - Seriously whoever wants to get married please get married this Dec.. (;p) I'm tired of having to miss anymore weddings...Anyone? Somebody? Anyone at all?

Hehe...lawak je eh..jangan marah

Take care

10 comments:

niSamiR said...

wahhh..sheri request ayam masak merah laaarrrhhh...i pun adore sgt ayam masak merah if g kenduri...mmg 3 ketul la satu pinggan..haha..

dyanna said...

boleh wat kenduri kawin olok-olok. aci tak? LOL!

who am i said...

hey beb, sorry sgt i've been very the busy (you know the drill) hehehe.. i baru je cuti semlm and tomorrow i akan akad nikah..

thanks for the tribute for my wedding (i know a lot of people follow your blog, so i rase bangga sgt mendapat tempat dalam ur blog hehehe)

yes, i miss you a lot. i really do. and i tak pernah lupa u man.. even though i sukar beronline skrg, i tak penah lupa u man.. a lot of times that i wanted to call you and ask what should i do and ask your opinion on marriage / relationship stuff cause you've been there and done that man.. you're like my loveguru :)

i really wish that you could make it to my wedding, sbb sama dewan dgn ur wedding and it will be supercool! but i understand bebe :) i will upload a looooooooot of pictures and kalau sempat mengyoutube kan :)

tengok tu, esok nak kawin, harini sempat lagi check out blog sume :p crazy rite ? i knowhehehehehe

and yes, you are my #1 bestfriend :)

gonna miss you and i am sooo sorry i have been very superbly busy.. we will catch up nanti when things get settled down :) and be sure to check out pictures okay :)

sheri said...

nisa,
3 ketul ke? melampau tuh... kita ikutkan hati nak 3 gak, cuma cover malu@ control ayu la. tak nak lah mkn lebih dr hafiz..hahaha

cheyah,
kawin olok2...ok je, mslhnye sape yg nk jadi pengantin olok2 tuh?

dora,
babe.i'm sooo happy u sempat lagi baca my blog and comment.

psst -i cried when i read your comment, so touching and only Allah knows how much I sooo want to be there. But my bro's coming kan?

i totally understand u being so busy (like duh...it's marriage kan? and i hope u will be even 'busier' after marriage..;p..haha (gelak kuat2, boleh tak?)

take care babe. miss u lots future Mrs Ikhwan

lillix said...

Tribute to dor.. yay..!! gratz dor

hey sheri, i can type for your phd thesis mate. hehe, i love it
.. and come to think about it, you didnt come to my wedding hey, where were you . lol

sheri said...

Atik,
Babe,
How come I haven't seen or heard from u for sooooo long mate? how's it goin' mate? busy with ur PhD already? or busy makin' bubs or something...lol
Wow, u pass the 70 thingy, you must be pretty good with ur hands lah (being dentist and all)...;p
When was ur wedding? Was I invited? I seriously don't remember why I didn't come lah. Sorry eh... I'll make it up to u by coming to Adelaide la satu hari nanti... ;p

lillix said...

Sorry, i'm so slow. busy making bubs?

sheri said...

hahah.. ingat tulis slang oz hanya org tertentu je fhm ;p

bubs = babies.. i dunno why they call baby =bubba/ bub

dyanna said...

oh noes!! alamaks! Sheri!! I lupa nak amik gambar nasik minyak dora (!!!) gambar pinggan kosong banyak la.

Sebelum makan tu memang dah remind diri sendiri, "I gotta snap a picture of the food for Sheri". Tapi, bila sampai time makan, my mind went blank and perut jadi lagi penting dari camera :P
Nevertheless, I'll help to upload pics of the day (minus the food) in a few days time. Hopefully soon!

sheri said...

che yah
bagus tak amik gmbr tuh, menangis nanti orang kat sini kempunan nasi minyak dora..hahaha.
but i do understand the inability to snap pics when food is in front. that's why i tak snap pics of food i eat...hahaha, tak sabar, nak mkn jer.

where's the pic? fb ke?